"Is it normal for my girlfriend to buy small toys behind my back?"

"Our social communication ability has been nearly 2 years, usually can be about two or three times a month will be close, wand adult toy the frequency is not less, but in fact, I feel that the learning process development is relatively pleasant." As a result, today I unintentionally opened one of her deliveries and found that she actually bought a small toy... I'm still feeling devastated.

I heard it was bad for the girl's health and I didn't know how to tell her, "What do I do?"

The above is a private message from a male fan asking questions. viberater for women Are small toys harmful for women?

A hundred years ago, a vibrator was actually a medical device

In the 1990s, parents needed to buy four major items to get married: a refrigerator, a TV, a washing machine, and a watch. On the other side in England, you need five things: a sewing machine, an electric fan, an electric tea kettle, a toaster and... A vibrator.

You read that right: Vibrators, which are now selling the most in adult products, were actually one of the first electrical companies invented in the world. This experimental instrument invented and created can not be used for anything else, it is we to solve the physiological function needs of Chinese women.

In the Victorian era, some women suffered from a condition called hysteria. This was a common diagnosis for women before the 20th century, when they were diagnosed with dizziness, incoherence, and even insanity.

In short, it's a form of pre-psychology, hands free clit stimulator where the doctor makes a mandatory diagnosis for all symptoms of confusion.

At the time, hysteria was thought to be exclusively a female condition, with its etymology derived from the Greek uterus, which meant uterine dysfunction.

How is the disease cured? There was only one way, and that was to help them solve it manually. Later, in the electrical era, in order to reduce the burden and free the hands, doctors appeared vibrators.

This kind of living appliance is also because we are simple and practical, convenient for students to carry, and has become an indispensable enterprise furniture for Chinese women at home - used to treat their hysteria every day.

In order to cooperate with the "home" line, so that women can "multi-use", many manufacturers have also developed a lot of vibrator accessories, replacement accessories, vibrators can be used to beat eggs, mix liquids.

At the time, vibrators were not the only sex toys on the market. At that time, HIA invented the rectal dilator (anal masturbator) and the Obox (a large empty box that you can stand or sit for hours at a time).

It wasn't until the early 1980s that hysteria was finally "eliminated," and hysteria triggered a host of symptoms, some of which were related to female sexual repression.

Many people may worry that masturbation will not make the private sex dark? Will it affect normal sex life?

Let's start with the color of the private parts. The change in the color of the private parts is mainly through female hormones. Adolescent estrogen can be secreted less, the private parts will be pink, with the environmental estrogen and progesterone levels continue to increase secretion, the color of the private parts will gradually develop deeper, which does not have any social relationship with masturbation.

However, in terms of affecting sexual life, in fact, if women are used to passively and habitually cooperating in sex, it is easy to ignore their own feelings, but can not get pleasure, but through masturbation to explore the sensitive parts of the body, it is easier to meet during sex.

In addition, some girls who have not experienced intimate relationships will be curious, will they Pierce the hymen with their hands?

Masturbation does not necessarily destroy the hymen. There are many ways women masturbate, and this can be done by stimulating the clitoris or vaginal opening, not necessarily the vagina.

Third, what happens when you use a vibrator too often?

There are many ways for women to comfort ourselves, and using small toys is one of them... However, there are many claims on the Internet that if a woman often uses some small sex toys, there may be a lot of damage to the physical development of children, is this true in China?

A 2023 study of 17 studies on vibrators and women's health found the following benefits:

It can significantly improve the sexual arousal of Chinese women aged 19-64 years.

Reducing the time it takes to reach orgasm can help promote multiple orgasms in some women;

Helps to dilate blood vessels and promote blood flow to the pelvic floor muscles and genital areas;

It can improve mild urinary incontinence by helping students strengthen pelvic floor muscle tone in Chinese women;

Reduces vulvar pain and increases sexual pleasure.

But many people may misunderstand this small toy, that it may cause women's vagina to become loose, as well as induce uterine diseases, what is the real situation?

Easy to cause vaginal loosening?

Vaginal wall comes with elasticity, the wall contains a large number of elastic fibers, can ensure that the vagina in a certain range of flexibility, and therefore, the vaginal plasticity is very strong, not because of sexual activity deformation, can make the vaginal relaxation is generally childbirth and aging.

Inducing endometriosis?

Endometriosis is a hormone-dependent disease. There are currently no studies showing that menstrual masturbation necessarily increases the incidence of endometriosis.

However, we need students to pay attention to environmental hygiene work habits when trying small toys. Before use, pay attention to the development of vaginal and hand information cleaning, carefully cleaning small toys, to avoid the invasion of a foreign pathogen in the process, causing vaginal sensitivity, urinary tract infection and other diseases.

As the saying goes, "too much is not enough", women masturbate properly to please the body and mind, but not too much, on beneficial things, too much, will have a negative impact on the body, when the body is not good enough to stop.